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Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Make It Short and Simple

Thursday and Friday are my day off from work. Oh, yes I am back to work for the info of my blogger friends. I will write a separate story on how it happened, soon. I had a chance of reading some blogs.

What caught my attention are blog topics about relationships. A.K.A – Tips and recommendations how relationship would work and last in the days ahead. I read many kinds books about this topic. It seems all of them have same recommendations. Why not simply point out the simple ways how relationship would work? Here are what I have to say. -

  1. Be a responsible partner – Relationship is partnership. Be it among family members or among friends.
  2. Shun white slavery – Strong words but I simply mean abuse in relationship. You should know when to take control of the situation. Most of those who knew me personally, know I am easy to please. I seldom complain. But when I sense something is amiss. I distance myself or let the other person know, it takes two to tango.
  3.  Avoid complicated relationship – Life has so many challenges. You may not be strong enough to handle the pressure.

Is there anything you would like to add? Relationship is partnership. Sharing is caring as one of my blogger buddies says.

22 comments:

Multibrand said...

Hi JP,

I agree that the three points you have made are the keys to a successful relationship between a man and a woman.

I would like to add that if all three have been fulfilled both must still make effort to make the relationship always alive :
1) Tolerance
2) Express your feelings

Note: females tend to hide and compile their disappointments, only express them when they are too many.

Please remember that males are also human beings who can make mistakes.

Princess Zezebel Lair said...

Hi Jolly,
Agree with your points.

@Multibrand,
Man like to show their feeling so much, not realizing that it could hurt the feeling of their loved one.

cooking varieties (wan) said...

hi jolly princess and thanks for your most welcome visit/
thanks also for sharing your great tips on "love" :)
i agree with you that in a relationship/ friendship, one must know when to run or when to walk away..
have a nice day

Ryan said...

Great tips JP, if you ever change career path then I can see a future in marriage counselling for you.

cLai ♥ said...

ahh~~~~
I learned something!!!

Bear Wife said...

Ha ha ha JP

How about this ? : Relationship is all about meeting with the "right" people at the "right time" & the "right" place. ;p

You have wonderful points there, but as they say....there's always somebody for someone. E.g Fierce husbands vs meek wives,
Controlling gal friend vs docile boy friend...etc, etc and the relationship still works out fine....

For the first time, striking the lottery never seemed so much more achievable. :) cheers

Jean said...

I agree with your points but don't feel I can offer any more advise.
All my relationships have ended with much hurt. It has been almost 6 years since I had a date. Life alone is not that bad....in fact I love the Peace.

Dai Ning Li said...

I like this JP. Relationship is centered to loving and caring about your partner and vice versa.

Jolly Princess said...

@Multibrand- Yes, of course to err is human Harry. But most women express their feelings anytime they want it. @Princess Zezebel Lair -Thanks Z. Oh, I thought when a man expresses his love so much to me I should be on top of the world. :)

Jolly Princess said...

@Ryan- (lol) You are better than I am Ryan. I am not or I have not been into that kind of relationship yet. The relationship I mentioned here does not pertain solely on spouses. @cLai ♥ - You bet.. :)@Bear Wife - Relationship is all about meeting with the "right" people at the "right time" & the "right" place.- Love this one. :)

Jolly Princess said...

@Jean - It is sad to know you had invested time in a relationship and it did not work fine. Anyhow, you are not alone being single. There are many of us. :) @Dai Ning Li - Yes, like I mentioned it takes two to tango. It is too tiring to please and love someone if the other person does not care at all.

cooking varieties(wan) said...

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thanks and hv a nice day

Jolly Princess said...

@cooking varieties(wan) - Thanks for the award. Appreciate it. But I just do not have time to be working on them. :)

roffe said...

Great, you are back at work.....It's not fathers day in Norway today, but thanks...Have great days ahead.

Nelson said...

Hello! Visiting your web. I desire you a beautiful new week. Regard from your friend in Brasil :)

Jolly Princess said...

@roffe - Yes, it got me worried for a while. But I am happy I have the job. @Nelson - Welcome aboard Nelson. Appreciate your visit.

Jill Wellington said...

Excellent relationship advice...simple, yet hard for many people.

Jolly Princess said...

@Jill Wellington- Thanks friend. You had maintain a good family relationship and friendship through the WWW. Hugs to you!:)

fham tende said...

I definitely agree! Be a responsible partner! :)

Aida said...

Hi Jolly, i agree!

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